My Friend Ray

I met Ray a few years ago through my daughter Jaime. She joined our Church youth group and she kept talking about some dude named Ray. The first thing she said was that he looked young, but wasn’t!! She said he was great and was such an inspiration to her. All she talked about is how I had to meet him because he was 'cool'. Well, I'm not sure about that as I don't think I'm a good judge of ones 'coolness'; but, I can totally agree with Jaime now: Ray is great!

Ray and I became friends when I began helping out with the youth group. I have found his insight and presence within the group to be an inspiration to all who know him. There was one kid who talked often of Ray’s backside; but I probably shouldn't mention that now......

Our friendship has been a blessing in my life. I know that I can turn to him with any problem, and he will lend an ear or a shoulder - whichever is needed (sometimes both). I enjoy hanging out with him. Whether it's out for dinner and a beer, or off to see a movie, I know we will have fun. My kids sometimes get upset if I go out with Ray and they are not included. Oh well, such is life.

Ray inspires me too. I have learned so much from him. The way he interacts with the teens, dedication to his faith and his honesty are all motivating. The teens all are drawn to him for advice, prayer, or entertainment. He has taught me new ways to relate to the group that have helped in my interactions. I see so many of the teens emulating Ray. That is the best compliment one can receive.

And if there is any practical joke going on, you can be pretty sure Ray had something to do with it. As a matter fact, there have been a couple of times when I have gotten “The Look” from Sister because of Ray. There was the time when he called my cell phone during prayer….. Thanks, Ray! And who can forget the moo box?

Even better than his motivation of all who know him is his dedication to live his faith. The way he inspires those around him is not by preaching; but by living it.

Ray is now devoting his life to entering the Priesthood. I am amazed and full of wonder. One of the neatest things he did is to make the announcement of joining the seminary to the Youth Group during our talk on Vocations. He was so excited in the weeks coming up to that talk. He told me his decision; but wanted to wait to tell the kids until it fit into our reflection that particular night. That's just how he is.




Ok, enough of that. I'm done praising this guy. He's great. There. I said it. I wish everyone had a "Ray" in their life.

xoxo