I have a moral dilemma. Well, I'm not sure if it's actually MORAL; but... Here's the issue: Do you think it's bad for a person, let's say a woman, who is not handicapped, to use the handicapped stall in the ladies room? I will ask specifically for women because, let's face it, it's easier for a man - handicapped or not - to pee than a woman.
Is it equal to, say, a non-handicapped person parking in a handicapped spot with a car?
This question has often crossed my mind when I enter a public ladies room. I thought, well, I have enough people who read this blog to gather pertinent (if not statistically significant) data.
Please comment - I NEED you to comment. I am interested in knowing your thoughts on the subject.
Thank you for your support. I will post the results of my little data-gathering mission when/if enough data is submitted.
chat soon
xoxo
Tuesday, October 11, 2005
Sunday, October 09, 2005
Friendship
I am luckier than most. I have very good friends. It's like God has given me different people for very individual reasons. There is much I have learned from my friends. I'll share some interesting factoids:
1. Andrea: I have learned to spread my wings (literally, 7/26/99) and think logically while having a damn good time at it! I have learned, and continue to learn, that sometimes you have to talk something out to figure out what you need.
2. Nina: I have learned about happy marriage; both from watching hers as well as seeing her parents.
3. Diane: I have learned strength when I thought there was none to be had.
4. Lisa: I have learned unconditional love; what it is like to truly say whatever you want with no fear of judgment.
5. Marsha: I have learned that I can always call her when in need and she will be there.
6. Ray: I have learned that growing spiritually can be fun and completely rewarding when you have a friend to guide you.
7. PutzMaster: I have learned that sometimes you have to go for what you want and deal with the consequences later.
8. Lane: I have learned that even a bad play is still a great night out with a friend.
9. Sister Lany Jo: I have learned that if you have five minutes to spare, and use them in service, that it is completely satisfying.
10. Kathy: I have learned that you have to do what YOU think is right for you and your family and that personal strength comes from endurance and the strength of your friends.
So how can it be that I sit alone so often with no where to turn? I guess I need to re-read what I wrote above and find my endurance.
Chat soon.
xoxo
1. Andrea: I have learned to spread my wings (literally, 7/26/99) and think logically while having a damn good time at it! I have learned, and continue to learn, that sometimes you have to talk something out to figure out what you need.
2. Nina: I have learned about happy marriage; both from watching hers as well as seeing her parents.
3. Diane: I have learned strength when I thought there was none to be had.
4. Lisa: I have learned unconditional love; what it is like to truly say whatever you want with no fear of judgment.
5. Marsha: I have learned that I can always call her when in need and she will be there.
6. Ray: I have learned that growing spiritually can be fun and completely rewarding when you have a friend to guide you.
7. PutzMaster: I have learned that sometimes you have to go for what you want and deal with the consequences later.
8. Lane: I have learned that even a bad play is still a great night out with a friend.
9. Sister Lany Jo: I have learned that if you have five minutes to spare, and use them in service, that it is completely satisfying.
10. Kathy: I have learned that you have to do what YOU think is right for you and your family and that personal strength comes from endurance and the strength of your friends.
So how can it be that I sit alone so often with no where to turn? I guess I need to re-read what I wrote above and find my endurance.
Chat soon.
xoxo
Wednesday, October 05, 2005
Utopia
Philosophy class - Paper #2 - I was given a deserted island off the coast of New Zealand, and 20,000 people and was charged with creating my own Utopia. Here is my creation:
Mytopia
To a beautiful island, off the New Zealand coast;
I arrive with my posse, to assume my post.
Queen of the land, an auspicious title;
I won’t take it lightly, as my position is vital.
Politics are not my most favorite deed;
But the installation of government fulfills a direct need.
Assemblywomen, councilmen, mayors and clerks;
People in power, who were once known as jerks.
Segregation is a must, to all know our place;
It is not done by gender, age, weight, or race.
Each one drew a straw, to know where to go;
The classes are Upper, the Middle, and Low.
Our homes will be built;
Some do it themselves.
Not me, of course;
(Mine was built by the elves.)
We are given supplies, to meet all our needs;
Furniture, clothing and food, to prevent stampedes.
Our families intact, to our homes we will settle;
Make the beds, set the table, put on the kettle.
A list of jobs to assign, some requiring skill;
Others just need a warm body to fill.
Doctor, librarian, garbage man and maid;
Dentist, nurse, mailman and a teacher for each grade.
Entertainment is fundamental for society’s bliss;
Some like sports, some the arts, some to just reminisce.
We’ll need a place to enjoy our chosen event;
So we will build an arena and a park with a tent.
I love to shop, so we’ll build a great mall;
With Filenes, and Sears, and Aeropostale.
Victoria’s Secret and Forever 21;
Spencer’s, and Starbucks, and a place to buy gum.
Mytopians dwell in complete content;
No worries about taxes, mortgage or rent.
Economy flourishes; we buy what we need;
There is no debt, no credit, and even no greed.
All wages united into one great pool;
To be distributed to all citizens, genius or fool.
Some need more than others, as class represents;
Never in the red, hardly making a dent.
The kids go to school, the educational technique;
Allows for self-direction, it’s very unique.
Each finds his own way, moving ahead as he’s ready;
A method that is interesting, affirmative and steady.
They all play together, the toys are all shared;
Teams are assigned, never chosen, so feelings are spared.
Learning through play, helps the world to make sense;
Keeping students relaxed, eager, and not ever tense.
Hospitals run without intrusion of an HMO;
You need to be seen? All you do is go.
No co-pays or deductibles ever to be met;
You go with complaints, and treatment you get.
Mind you, there may be a bit of a wait;
But there is relaxing music, for your psychological state.
Running out of time is never in question;
There is no anxiety, confusion or depression.
All citizens have enough time to get their stuff done;
With plenty left over for family fun!
There is no poverty, suffering or loss;
We all have enough, the worker, the boss.
Citizens without anger, grief or fear.
We all are so happy to be living here!
In conclusion:
There once was a Mytopian Queen;
Whose island was simply serene,
She looked over her land,
Saying, “This is so grand!”
I can’t believe it all was a dream.
xoxo Chat soon.
Mytopia
To a beautiful island, off the New Zealand coast;
I arrive with my posse, to assume my post.
Queen of the land, an auspicious title;
I won’t take it lightly, as my position is vital.
Politics are not my most favorite deed;
But the installation of government fulfills a direct need.
Assemblywomen, councilmen, mayors and clerks;
People in power, who were once known as jerks.
Segregation is a must, to all know our place;
It is not done by gender, age, weight, or race.
Each one drew a straw, to know where to go;
The classes are Upper, the Middle, and Low.
Our homes will be built;
Some do it themselves.
Not me, of course;
(Mine was built by the elves.)
We are given supplies, to meet all our needs;
Furniture, clothing and food, to prevent stampedes.
Our families intact, to our homes we will settle;
Make the beds, set the table, put on the kettle.
A list of jobs to assign, some requiring skill;
Others just need a warm body to fill.
Doctor, librarian, garbage man and maid;
Dentist, nurse, mailman and a teacher for each grade.
Entertainment is fundamental for society’s bliss;
Some like sports, some the arts, some to just reminisce.
We’ll need a place to enjoy our chosen event;
So we will build an arena and a park with a tent.
I love to shop, so we’ll build a great mall;
With Filenes, and Sears, and Aeropostale.
Victoria’s Secret and Forever 21;
Spencer’s, and Starbucks, and a place to buy gum.
Mytopians dwell in complete content;
No worries about taxes, mortgage or rent.
Economy flourishes; we buy what we need;
There is no debt, no credit, and even no greed.
All wages united into one great pool;
To be distributed to all citizens, genius or fool.
Some need more than others, as class represents;
Never in the red, hardly making a dent.
The kids go to school, the educational technique;
Allows for self-direction, it’s very unique.
Each finds his own way, moving ahead as he’s ready;
A method that is interesting, affirmative and steady.
They all play together, the toys are all shared;
Teams are assigned, never chosen, so feelings are spared.
Learning through play, helps the world to make sense;
Keeping students relaxed, eager, and not ever tense.
Hospitals run without intrusion of an HMO;
You need to be seen? All you do is go.
No co-pays or deductibles ever to be met;
You go with complaints, and treatment you get.
Mind you, there may be a bit of a wait;
But there is relaxing music, for your psychological state.
Running out of time is never in question;
There is no anxiety, confusion or depression.
All citizens have enough time to get their stuff done;
With plenty left over for family fun!
There is no poverty, suffering or loss;
We all have enough, the worker, the boss.
Citizens without anger, grief or fear.
We all are so happy to be living here!
In conclusion:
There once was a Mytopian Queen;
Whose island was simply serene,
She looked over her land,
Saying, “This is so grand!”
I can’t believe it all was a dream.
xoxo Chat soon.
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